Showing posts with label finding God's Will. Show all posts
Showing posts with label finding God's Will. Show all posts

Thursday, July 28, 2011

How do I find God's Will for My Life?

This question gets a lot of press and rightfully so because we want to live life the 'right way' and we really do want to do God's will -- AS LONG AS WHAT HE WANTS US TO DO IS WHAT WE WANT TO DO ....!  The good news is that following God's will fits us quite well because He made us and He knows where our strengths and true dreams are.  So, we can trust Him with us. 

The challenge for some of us is that we already know what God's will is for us and we pretend like we don't because we don't want to do what He's calling us to do next.  If that's you, then don't expect anymore guidance from God until you do what He's already told you to do. 

However, if you're serious about finding His will and doing HIS will and not just your doing your own thing then you can be assured He'll guide you. 

But, it begins with just doing the very next thing that God asks of you. 

By the way, what God asks of you will NEVER contradict the precepts, principles and patterns already given to us in the Bible.  For example, you may be 'feeling' like it's God's will for you to leave your wife and kids to be with an old flame you've been chatting with on FaceBook.  I promise you that's NOT God's will even though you 'feel' like it is.  How do I know?  Because it would violate God's precepts already spelled out clearly in the Bible.  When you have to choose between your 'feelings' and God's plans from Scripture -- go with Scripture 100% of the time!

So, if you're really ready to embark on the greatest journey of your life then watch the presentation below and let these ideas sink in then begin doing the 'little daily things' that you already know God wants you to do and He'll move you to where He wants you to be over time.

peace,
Jeff



Jeff Fuson -Point Leader of Phos Church near Louisville Kentucky -Leadership Keynote Speaker -Husband / Daddy -Missional Church Planter

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

How to 'HEAR God' -- it's possible and it's vital!

I just posted this same info on our Church Blog at PhosNews and wanted to have it over here as well.  Enjoy.

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How do you REALLY 'HEAR' God?

Since you're reading this chances are you are interested in knowing how to really know what God wants you to do.  More specifically you'd like to know how to tune into what God is saying.  Even more specific than that you'd like to be certain that it really is God speaking and not the Ghost of Too Much Pizza Past Creating Blurry Visions.  


The question came up in our Group this evening, "how do I know it's God's voice and it's not just me talking to myself?"  An honest, hard-hitting question that we long to have an answer for because we long to know what God wants and we long to do it!  


The answer is that we must cultivate an ongoing conversational relationship with God where we practice hearing from Him in the Bible, in the experiences of life, in the remarks of a friend, etc.  Without a vibrant relationship we'll struggle to know anything with enough clarity to take action.  But, how do we develop that sort of conversational relationship?


I pulled a book from my personal library this evening to be reminded of how to cultivate this ongoing conversational relationship and how to hear God in hopes that I could pass along a nugget or two to you.  But, as I reopened this book I realized the best thing I could do for you is to encourage you to grab a copy and read it!  


"Hearing God" by Dallas Willard is a fantastic, comprehensive work on how to know God better and it zeroes in on 'developing a conversational relationship with God'.  


I believe that's possible to grow in our ongoing conversational ability with God because it's happening in my life.  No, I don't hear an audible voice, but I do have an ongoing expanding awareness of God and His general & specific will for my life and for the team that I lead.   I hope the same for you.  "Hearing God" was one of the pivotal reads in helping me cultivate my relationship with God and strengthen my understanding of how He communicates with us.  


Here's to more of us 'Hearing God'!  


Are you cultivating time & space in your life to shut out the 'noise' of life and just sit and listen for the voice of God?  How could you pull that off for a few minutes today?  


I hope you'll grab this book if you're ready to go further in your conversation with God.


peace,
Jeff

Jeff Fuson -Point Leader of Phos Church near Louisville Kentucky -Leadership Keynote Speaker -Husband / Daddy -Missional Church Planter

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Jesus in the Locker-Room ...

Tomorrow at Phos I'll be talking about how God prepared and called Moses.  The key idea is that to do what God asks of us we have to throw down our past, our security, and even our personal preferred dreams and pick up His dream for the world. 

Here's some of what I'll be talking about tomorrow.... 
(The Biblical Background for this story of Moses is found in Exodus 1 to 4)

When God is ready to get something done in the world He chooses to use people to get 'er done most of the time.

Think of Moses being given an early passion to help the Hebrew people and actually killing an oppressive Egyptian taskmaster before running for his life.  That passion was a predictor of Mose’s purpose on this planet.  It would take a long season of refining in Moses’ life where he would learn the ways of the wilderness working as a shepherd. 

He was saved for a purpose to be breast fed by his own Hebrew mother and yet raised in the splendor of Pharoah’s house.  He would have the heart of a Hebrew and the Brain training of an Egyptian and then he would run to the wilderness where he would be trained as a Shepherd -- one skilled in the ways of wilderness survival. 

All these places were boot-camps that God would use to prepare Moses. the people connections along the way where positioning him and preparing him for God’s purpose.

God would use his Hebrew heritage and passion to rescue his fellow Israelites.
God would use his Palatial Pharoic training and connections to open the doors of Pharoah to him when the show-down became imminent.
God would use his wilderness time to prepare him to lead over a million people on a journey that would last for over 40 years in a harsh dessert where only a shepherd could survive. 

God was uniquely preparing Moses to lead.

When you look back on your past, where have you been, who have you spent time with, what training have you received, what really fires you up and makes you feel passionate beyond reason?  Mix that background with a radical willingness to say YES to God when he shows up and the world will be changed in a powerful way.

The story of Moses is really a story about how God gets His work done in the world most of the time.

He takes a passionate purpose with a questionable past and provides boot camps of all sorts to prepare him/her for the position He has in mind for them and then He calls them to see if they’re ready to pass the biggest test of all... The ‘Will you trust me to do whatever I ask you to do?’ Test. 

Moses tried to fail the test by showing God all of his, ‘buts’ ...
...but, they’ll try to kill me
...but, they won’t believe you sent me
...but, I stutter

In each case God redirected Moses and reminded him that the key player in this drama would be God himself and not Moses.  When God says, I will be with you...He means, I’m gonna do the heavy lifting and you just play your part.  Just have the courage to go and do what I tell you to do and I’ll be on the move to make things go the way that I intend.  It’s gonna look like it’s you, but it’s really ME.  So, get going, and I will be with you.

When we see the story of Moses as powerful as it is to see what God did with him, somehow it’s easy to pass the story off as being an ‘Old Testament God doing Old Testament Style’ work. 

If you think that God was demanding with Moses just wait til you see how demanding Jesus was on his followers.

Check out what Jesus says to His followers in these passages:

Matthew 16:24-25 (Holman Christian Standard Bible)

24 Then Jesus said to His disciples, "If anyone wants to come with Me, he must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow Me. 25 For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life because of Me will find it.

Matthew 8:22 (GOD’S WORD Translation)
 22 But Jesus told him, “Follow me, and let the dead bury their own dead.”

Matthew 19:21 (The Message)
 21"If you want to give it all you've got," Jesus replied, "go sell your possessions; give everything to the poor. All your wealth will then be in heaven. Then come follow me."

Luke 14:33
“Simply put, if you're not willing to take what is dearest to you, whether plans or people, and kiss it good-bye, you can't be my disciple.”

Someway in the church in America we’ve cast Jesus like he’s the lead in the cast on the ‘Good-Ship Lollypop’ and he sings with a limp wrist and a lisp.  ‘On the goo-oo- od ssship LollyPop, it’s a sssswee-eet trip to the candy-ssshop...’ and we imagine that Jesus just came to sing us sweet little songs as He takes our lists of preferred candies and fills little polka-dotted candy bags for us joyfully singing all the while. 

Would you please show me that in the nearest Bible that you can find?  It’s not in mine.

But, what is in mine, is a Jesus, Son of God, who is demanding and manly and who does exactly what God says to do it when God says to do in the manner that God says to do it.  Jesus says that ‘The Father and I are one and I do whatever I see Him doing’.  So, Jesus is God in the flesh and He operates with His followers and would-be followers just as God acted with Moses. 

We’d do well to replace our Good-ship lollypop Jesus image with a Super-Bowl Winning NFL Coach in the locker room of a championship game at half-time.  A coach who expects that these players are 100% committed to earning and wearing that Super-Bowl championship ring.  A coach who expects that the plays will be ran that He calls when he calls them in the fashion that he calls them.  A coach that expects to win! (not some triumph that hurts and maims people but the triumph of the King Jesus and His Kingdom that comes to set prisoners free, that cares for widows and orphans, that has dinner with rich sinners and calls them into His Kingdom, that sort of thing...)

If you’re gonna win a Championship then you’re gonna give up some things to get there.  You’re gonna be willing to subject your life to a level of discipline and rigor and sacrifice that people wearing jerseys in the stands and watching you play on television with a bag of popcorn can scarcely imagine. 
But, someday when you hold up that trophy and you wear that ring and all the associated bling -- you’ll know one thing -- you did what others would not do so that you can live like others cannot even imagine. 

Jesus reminds us in the locker room here today... eye hasn’t seen and you’ve not even begun to imagine what it’s gonna be like when we win the prize that God has in front of us.  And, it’s okay to trade whatever you have to today to be on this team and to win the game that God has in front of us. 
Weenies, wimps, and good-ship lollypoppers don’t get in on what God is up to in the world.

When God calls you into the game, will you say yes? Will you step up?  Will you suit up and get out there and play with your whole heart?  Will you?

Jesus is the most demanding head coach of all time.

And, just in case you wonder if the calling of Jesus was just reserved for his physical followers back in the day, consider his final challenges in Matthew 28 when He is commissioning us, His future followers to suit up, get into the game and give it all we’ve got! 

Just like Moses we’ll have to let go of our ‘buts’ and get over our busted past and allow God to be ‘THE MAN’ in the places He calls us into, and He will.

But, we’ll have to throw down our past successes & failures and our present security and pick up the uncertainty of following God.  Will you do that?





Jeff Fuson -Point Leader of Phos Church near Louisville Kentucky -Leadership Keynote Speaker -Husband / Daddy -Missional Church Planter

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

What do you do when your dream goes bust?

We'll all face a moment when all that we've hoped for and believed in and just 'knew' that God would do falls apart.  What do you do then?


Pete Wilson asks it well on page 9 of his new book, "Plan B".  He asks, "What do you do when God doesn't show up for you in the way you thought God was going to show up?"


On pages 21 he reminds us that, "this is no time to give up on God....
Your dreams may not be happening, and things
are not turning out the way you expected, but that
doesn't mean your life is spinning out of control.
It just means that YOU'RE NOT IN CONTROL.  It's
in those moments you can learn to trust the only one
who has ever had control in the first place."


I can't tell you how many times I've pouted, been upset, gotten mad, ran from God, tried to maniupulate the world to give me what I thought I had to have when I felt let down by God.  It happens when God's time table doesn't match my calendar. It happens when all the 'stuff' that I've been trying to orchestrate to help God do the plan I have in mind crumbles into dust and blows away.  It happens when the dream is still-born after months of preparation, planning, and hard work.  It happens to me all the time.


It doesn't happen as much as it used to, because I've learned that His plan always trumps mine and that even when He's doing things in ways that make no sense to me that He's still on His throne and He's still in control AND, He still loves me and promises to work all things in my favor in the long game -- way out in the future where I have no clue of what's going to happen.  I'm learning to have a deep confidence in the goodness of God and to wait on His provision in the way that He deems best .  More to the point, I'm learning to quit trying to manipulate the world into following my plan for the universe and to simply trust that God is on the move even when it makes no sense to me.  It's a much more peaceful way to live and a whole lot more fun to live with expectation that God is on the move and that He'll take care of me and He'll do the heavy lifting on His timefrrame.  Mostly, it's cool to just walk with God and watch Him do His thing!  


So, what about you?  What are you experiencing that's causing you to want to run or control or manipulate to regain control?  What are you learning about God?  Does your circumstance tempt you to give up on God?


We'll be tackling this whole arena of 'Plan B Living' at Phos Church this Sunday, October 3 at 10 AM over at Oldham County High School.


Jeff Fuson -Point Leader of Phos Church near Louisville Kentucky -Leadership Keynote Speaker -Husband / Daddy -Missional Church Planter

Monday, January 5, 2009

Extreme Life Makeover #2 -- Make a Radical Commitment

Most of us want to live life at a higher level....we'd like to have the 'perfect life' whatever that is.

There are a few challenges ....
#1 most of us have no idea of what the 'perfect life' would be for us because we've lacked the tools to help us define what that might look like. (the tools and ideas you need will be coming up later in this series)

# 2 We probably haven't committed to seeking God's Kingdom First and then letting the chips fall where they may. More on that in a minute....

I've spent a lot of time and energy in my life trying to determine what my 'dream life' would be like and then I've mapped out a plan and attacked it like 39 dogs only to realize that the pursuit left me empty inside. I couldn't figure out why until I realized that I was violating an important principle....I was determining my own dream with no input from God. It's not that God wants to 'boss' me around, it's that He knows me even better than I know myself and that when I pursue His agenda for the world and my place in it that my best gifts will be activated and I'll find myself in the sweet spot of a life well-lived on purpose.

In short I discover the power & passion of alignment with His agenda, my gifts and dreams and the needs of the world when I give Him access to the command center of my life.

The reality is that my dream is found in His.

It's remarkable that Jesus words ring true that when we lose our lives we actually find them.

Two Action Items for you today:
Action Item 1:
Read and really think about these 3 scriptures:

Proverbs 3:5-6

Matthew 6:33 (the entire Sermon on the Mount from Matthew 5 to Matthew 7 is worth reading and thinking seriously about as you seek to connect with God's ways and Jesus' commands for those who would seriously follow Him)

Jeremiah 29:11

Action Item 2: Pray something like this simply:
God, I don't know if I have enough faith to really trust you with my life and to accept Your agenda for me, but I'd like to. So, would you give me the courage to give up control of my life and to let You take the steering wheel of my life and to cooperate with your plan for the world and my place in it? Amen.

Rootin for YOU to find your Passion & Purpose in His Dream for the world.

Jeff Fuson

p.s. In order to condition our heart and mind to be in tune with God I don't know of anything more important than taking Scripture in and letting them tune our heart & mind to be on God's frequency. Read this post to learn a way to do this that won't take an extra moment of your day! This post is Extreme Life Makeover #1 -- Brain Candy for Christ Followers.


Jeff Fuson serves as Point Leader for Phos Hilaron Church near Louisville Kentucky. Jeff's # 1 passion is being a husband and daddy. A close second is seeing people grow spiritually. As a Professional Speaker Jeff also serves as a Keynote Speaker & Trainer crafting & delivering high impact keynote addresses & training events for Entrepreneurs, Banks, Credit Unions, and small to medium sized non-profit & for profit enterprises. He's got one incredible wife and 3 awesome children.

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Finding Gods Will Illustrated

Finding God's will is THE # 1 JOB for most of us at some points along the journey of life.

I think you'll find this simple presentation full of Biblically based wisdom for discovering God's will for your life.

Enjoy,
Jeff Fuson


Jeff Fuson serves as Point Leader for Phos Hilaron Church near Louisville Kentucky. Jeff's # 1 passion is being a husband and daddy. A close second is seeing people grow spiritually. As a Professional Speaker Jeff also serves as a Keynote Speaker & Trainer crafting & delivering high impact keynote addresses & training events for Entrepreneurs, Banks, Credit Unions, and small to medium sized non-profit & for profit enterprises. He's got one incredible wife and 3 awesome children.